First I want to start by saying I know we all have trials so I AM NOT JUDGING ANYONE for their mistakes. I just cannot believe how accepted pornography is!
I can't believe the women that are so confident in themselves that they are okay with plastering their naked, photoshopped bodies all over the world.
Now my first thought was seriously do these women not realize the effect this has on us wives or future wives. As I have gotten older I realize there are many other people to blame too. So here is where I start:
Naked women, I feel like the ugliest person on earth when I see you. I feel fat, disgusting, ugly, self conscious, and depressed.
People behind the scenes including photographers, editors, etc.. Thank you for making the pictures so distorted and awful that is so unrealistic. This highers expectations of partners to something unreal.
Media sources: shame on you! Shame on you for supporting such filth and allowing others to view it.
Partners (including men and women): when you look at porn you tear your partner up inside. Your actions make it harder for a partner to trust you. Is it worth it?
All this being said, I know how addiction works and where porn is so readily available and accepted it makes it even harder to stop.
I fear for my children. I don't feel like they stand a chance. Tonight while watching one of the talent shows on tv I was completely disgusted with how much filth I saw. I didn't even realize it until my 3 year old said ooh mom I like her boobies. WHAT???!! Seriously how do you know what those are and if you like them or not??? He is 3!!! It was a Victoria secret commercial. Then I started watching and noticed other commercials where the ladies were so dressed down that I felt uncomfortable knowing my son was seeing this. That is when I turned off the tv.
I'm ashamed with how the world sees a woman's body. Now I'm not 100% comfortable with mine, but I also realize what a woman's body can do and how blessed I truly am. I get to make a baby! I get to feed that baby! How remarkable is that. Yes I may have stretch marks, I may have extra body fat, or saggy boobs, but my kids are worth it! I'm not a model nor do I ever want to be one. I could never stoop to a level of showing off my body to please someone other than my husband. My body was made to nurture and love, not destroy families.
It is time we stand up and say something! It is time women realize their worth, not talking about money, but their potential. If they don't ever want to be a mom that is up to them, but their body was still created to nurture and love. It is time women and men stop treating themselves like an object and respecting themselves and others!
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